So you think that your lover may be cheating on you? There are some surefire and telltale signs that they may in fact be doing so. Or you could just be obsessing over something that is not going on at all, and be feeding yourself with misinformation. However, before you confront them and start what is most assuredly going to be a very impacting fight within your relationship—check out these three reasons to suspect that they are or may be a cheater.
Three Easily Identified Cheater Models
- They never let you see what or who they are text messaging on their cellular phones, and get all defensive if they are asked who they are talking to. The brick wall defense is very common amongst cheaters. If you have a person in your life that is always texting and won’t divulge to whom they are doing so with, they may be veering astray.
- Always coming home late with poor excuses. Sure everyone goes out every once in a while when they are in a committed relationship. We all need a break from the joys of monogamy here and there. But when it’s an ongoing thing that creates friction in the relationship, they may be cheating or trying to just avoid spending time with you.
- Frequently talks to people of the opposite sex from work, or other friends, and they always leave the room when they call. This is usually a very bad sign. It does not necessarily denote that your significant other is cheating. But then again, why all of the clandestine secrecy?